去年听着一个人在谈他的5年计划,然后他问了我一个问题:”你呢? 你的梦想/计划是什么? “
…….. 突然我停顿了几秒,然后答他:” 嗯,我没有..”
这个问题一直在我脑中打转,我开始去想..梦..梦想..
梦想是要去实践,不然它永远只是个梦.. 与其说是梦想,不如说是我想做的事!
我想做的事很多…
Things MUST be done:-
1) 我要调理好身体…没有了健康就什么也不用做了..
2) 我要努力的阅读…读读读…
3) 我要努力唱题!!
4) 我会努力为同志们祈求!
5) 我要真诚的对人!
6) 我要创造价值!!
7) 我要活出精彩!
Saturday, September 10, 2011
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
伤兵的感言
过了8个月31天, 请问你到底做了些什么? 要问我吗?
我..做了很多事..数次会议,筹备招生,婚礼表演,学习分享,舞蹈表演…
嗯..很多吗?还好..也不够多..很想一直问自己..”请问你到底做了些什么?”
原来..真的不够..不够努力..原来有很多事真的要我去做..
受伤了…隐藏的伤终于被发现了..不能过渡运动/跳舞了…那…要怎样才能贡献更多呢?
要好好照顾身体和能做更多的事..要怎样呢? 以前,我会觉得时间不够用,不够让我休息..
现在我仍然觉得时间不够用,是…不够让我做更多的事…所有的事都冥冥中安排好的…
就是这个时候让我发现受伤了…
嗯,很好…我不会拿”受伤”当借口,我会更加注意的…做适当的安排!
嗯…来吧!新的挑战又来了!
来吧!.....又是更加用心的去祈求的时候了!
我会铭记池田老夫人给池田先生的家训!
我会铭记池田家的家训!
铭记于心!
我..做了很多事..数次会议,筹备招生,婚礼表演,学习分享,舞蹈表演…
嗯..很多吗?还好..也不够多..很想一直问自己..”请问你到底做了些什么?”
原来..真的不够..不够努力..原来有很多事真的要我去做..
受伤了…隐藏的伤终于被发现了..不能过渡运动/跳舞了…那…要怎样才能贡献更多呢?
要好好照顾身体和能做更多的事..要怎样呢? 以前,我会觉得时间不够用,不够让我休息..
现在我仍然觉得时间不够用,是…不够让我做更多的事…所有的事都冥冥中安排好的…
就是这个时候让我发现受伤了…
嗯,很好…我不会拿”受伤”当借口,我会更加注意的…做适当的安排!
嗯…来吧!新的挑战又来了!
来吧!.....又是更加用心的去祈求的时候了!
我会铭记池田老夫人给池田先生的家训!
我会铭记池田家的家训!
铭记于心!
Monday, July 18, 2011
在湖边的长凳
“在湖边的长凳,来者不拒,就像张开双手欢迎着每个人。犹如一个心胸广阔的人,
对任何事都看得开,像海那么广阔。”
以上的是池田先生摄影的一张照片的解说。让我来描述一下:那张照片是在一片平静的湖,
只有在公园的一张长凳,一棵树和树影而已,什么也没有了。平静的湖和没人坐的长凳,
背后的意义却是那么的深厚。再一次的让我佩服池田先生!只有心胸广阔的人才能有如此
的心思!打从心里彻底地佩服!这么多张照片,这是我印象最深刻的!先生,谢谢你!
很抱歉,我的题目并没有如此的理想。。not consistent 不过,我会加油!
而且决意要看完“奋战足迹”!我会再加强我的心因为心为切要!
加油!加油!加油!
luv, ming
对任何事都看得开,像海那么广阔。”
以上的是池田先生摄影的一张照片的解说。让我来描述一下:那张照片是在一片平静的湖,
只有在公园的一张长凳,一棵树和树影而已,什么也没有了。平静的湖和没人坐的长凳,
背后的意义却是那么的深厚。再一次的让我佩服池田先生!只有心胸广阔的人才能有如此
的心思!打从心里彻底地佩服!这么多张照片,这是我印象最深刻的!先生,谢谢你!
很抱歉,我的题目并没有如此的理想。。not consistent 不过,我会加油!
而且决意要看完“奋战足迹”!我会再加强我的心因为心为切要!
加油!加油!加油!
luv, ming
Monday, June 13, 2011
活着的一天
昨天下午,碰巧看到一部日剧,是关于一班医生的故事。
这班医生是紧急时使用直升机去救人的。而昨天的剧情是:-
一宗发生在地下铁的意外,一片薄薄的铁板(不知何故)
插穿了3个年轻人的身体(心脏和心脏附近),3个人叠在一起,让他们
动弹不得。最底的是个女生,第2和第3 的是男生。第2 男生天生心脏有
问题所以救活的机会是0。女生和第3男生是刚分手的情侣。
第2男生开始失去意识了,女生无法冷静,第3男生利用自己
最仅有的力气去说话(因为他知道他没救了),为的就是让另外两个人
保持冷静。为了分开3个身体,救护人员必须抬起第3个男生然后把铁板
据掉。一旦抬起他,他将会流血不止而死。只有这样才能救回最底的女生。
第3男生说:“我才刚被甩了。。我。。现在要死吗?你们(医生)
说我会死,真的吗?我是个窝囊废,就这样死掉吗?我们真的要分手吗?
无论如何我都会保护你。。一定会永远保护。。。保。。护。。。你。。
。。“ 。。
就这样。。他。。。死了。。
医生拼命的按摩他的心脏(因为胸口撕开了)希望能救活他。。
可是他们知道。。是没用了。。不可能救活的。。
医生最后松开手。。对着他的尸体说:“你并不是窝囊废,
因为你一直讲话,让另外2个人保持冷静。。你利用最后
一口气做了件有意义的事。。谢谢你。。谢谢你。。“
这班医生是紧急时使用直升机去救人的。而昨天的剧情是:-
一宗发生在地下铁的意外,一片薄薄的铁板(不知何故)
插穿了3个年轻人的身体(心脏和心脏附近),3个人叠在一起,让他们
动弹不得。最底的是个女生,第2和第3 的是男生。第2 男生天生心脏有
问题所以救活的机会是0。女生和第3男生是刚分手的情侣。
第2男生开始失去意识了,女生无法冷静,第3男生利用自己
最仅有的力气去说话(因为他知道他没救了),为的就是让另外两个人
保持冷静。为了分开3个身体,救护人员必须抬起第3个男生然后把铁板
据掉。一旦抬起他,他将会流血不止而死。只有这样才能救回最底的女生。
第3男生说:“我才刚被甩了。。我。。现在要死吗?你们(医生)
说我会死,真的吗?我是个窝囊废,就这样死掉吗?我们真的要分手吗?
无论如何我都会保护你。。一定会永远保护。。。保。。护。。。你。。
。。“ 。。
就这样。。他。。。死了。。
医生拼命的按摩他的心脏(因为胸口撕开了)希望能救活他。。
可是他们知道。。是没用了。。不可能救活的。。
医生最后松开手。。对着他的尸体说:“你并不是窝囊废,
因为你一直讲话,让另外2个人保持冷静。。你利用最后
一口气做了件有意义的事。。谢谢你。。谢谢你。。“
Monday, May 23, 2011
学习之学习
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Never Give Up...
Song sharing...
Is easy for us to just tell someone :" Hey, don't give up!"..
But..do u know that..need to courage to do that?
Please don't just say that, say it with action!..
Challenge together...
Therefore.....
Never give up....
Yolanda Adams- Never Give Up
Visions that can change the world trapped inside an ordinary girl
She looks just like me too afraid to dream out loud
And though it’s simple your idea, it won’t make sense to everybody
You need courage now If you're gonna persevere
To fulfill divine purpose, you gotta answer when you're called
So don't be afraid to face the world against all odds
CHORUS
Keep the dream alive don't let it die
If something deep inside keeps inspiring you to try, don't stop
And never give up, don't ever give up on you
Don't give up
Every victory comes in time, work today to change tomorrow
It gets easier, who’s to say that you can’t fly
Every step you take you get, closer to your destination
You can feel it now, don’t you know you're almost there?
To fulfill divine purpose, you gotta answer when you're called
So don't be afraid to face the world against all odds
CHORUS
Keep the dream alive don't let it die
If something deep inside keeps inspiring you to try, don't stop
And never give up, don't ever give up on you
Sometimes life can place a stumbling block in your way
But you're gotta keep the faith, bring what's deep inside your heart
to the light
And never give up Don't ever give up on you
BRIDGE:
Who holds the pieces to complete the puzzle?
The answer that can solve a mystery
The key that can unlock your understanding
It's all inside of you, you have everything you need yeahhhh
Sooooo, keep the dream alive don't let it die
If something deep inside, keeps inspiring you to try don't stop
And never give up, don't ever give up on you
Sometimes life can place a stumbling block in your way
But you're gotta keep the faith, bring what's deep inside your heart yeah your
heart to the light
And never give up Don't ever give up on you
Nooo don’t give up,
No, no, no, no don’t give up
Oh, no, no, no, no don't...give...up
Is easy for us to just tell someone :" Hey, don't give up!"..
But..do u know that..need to courage to do that?
Please don't just say that, say it with action!..
Challenge together...
Therefore.....
Never give up....
Yolanda Adams- Never Give Up
Visions that can change the world trapped inside an ordinary girl
She looks just like me too afraid to dream out loud
And though it’s simple your idea, it won’t make sense to everybody
You need courage now If you're gonna persevere
To fulfill divine purpose, you gotta answer when you're called
So don't be afraid to face the world against all odds
CHORUS
Keep the dream alive don't let it die
If something deep inside keeps inspiring you to try, don't stop
And never give up, don't ever give up on you
Don't give up
Every victory comes in time, work today to change tomorrow
It gets easier, who’s to say that you can’t fly
Every step you take you get, closer to your destination
You can feel it now, don’t you know you're almost there?
To fulfill divine purpose, you gotta answer when you're called
So don't be afraid to face the world against all odds
CHORUS
Keep the dream alive don't let it die
If something deep inside keeps inspiring you to try, don't stop
And never give up, don't ever give up on you
Sometimes life can place a stumbling block in your way
But you're gotta keep the faith, bring what's deep inside your heart
to the light
And never give up Don't ever give up on you
BRIDGE:
Who holds the pieces to complete the puzzle?
The answer that can solve a mystery
The key that can unlock your understanding
It's all inside of you, you have everything you need yeahhhh
Sooooo, keep the dream alive don't let it die
If something deep inside, keeps inspiring you to try don't stop
And never give up, don't ever give up on you
Sometimes life can place a stumbling block in your way
But you're gotta keep the faith, bring what's deep inside your heart yeah your
heart to the light
And never give up Don't ever give up on you
Nooo don’t give up,
No, no, no, no don’t give up
Oh, no, no, no, no don't...give...up
Some say love...
Song sharing time..
Is a meaningful song, not only for "Love" but is also for the
attitude of life. If u are always afraid, u will never learn.
Just remember, winter will always turns to spring!
LeAnn Rimes- Some Say Love ( The Rose)
Some say love, It is a river,
That drowns the tender ring,
Some say love, It is a razor,
That leads your soul to bleed,
Some say love, It is a hunger,
And endless aching need,
I say love, It is a flower,
And you its only seen,
It's the heart, Afraid of breaking,
That never, Learns to dance,
It's the dream, Afraid of waking,
That never, Takes the chance,
It's the one, Who won't be taken,
Who cannot seem to be,
And the soul, Afraid of dying,
That never, Learns to live,
And the night, Has been too lonely,
And the rode, Has been too long,
And you feel, That road is only,
For the lucky, And the strong,
Just remember, In the winter,
Far beneath, The bitter snow,
Lies a seed, That with the suns love,
In the spring, Becomes a rose
Is a meaningful song, not only for "Love" but is also for the
attitude of life. If u are always afraid, u will never learn.
Just remember, winter will always turns to spring!
LeAnn Rimes- Some Say Love ( The Rose)
Some say love, It is a river,
That drowns the tender ring,
Some say love, It is a razor,
That leads your soul to bleed,
Some say love, It is a hunger,
And endless aching need,
I say love, It is a flower,
And you its only seen,
It's the heart, Afraid of breaking,
That never, Learns to dance,
It's the dream, Afraid of waking,
That never, Takes the chance,
It's the one, Who won't be taken,
Who cannot seem to be,
And the soul, Afraid of dying,
That never, Learns to live,
And the night, Has been too lonely,
And the rode, Has been too long,
And you feel, That road is only,
For the lucky, And the strong,
Just remember, In the winter,
Far beneath, The bitter snow,
Lies a seed, That with the suns love,
In the spring, Becomes a rose
Monday, February 28, 2011
You and Me..
Just to share a song here..quite some years already..
Lifehouse- You and Me
what day is it
and in what month
this clock never seemed so alive
I can't keep up
and I can't back down
I've been losing so much time
cause it's you and me and all of the people
with nothing to do
nothing to lose
and it's you and me and all of the people
and I don't know why
I can't keep my eyes off of you
all of the things that I want to say
just aren't coming out right
I'm tripping inwards
you got my head spinning
I don't know where to go from here
cause it's you and me and all of the people
with nothing to do
nothing to prove
and it's you and me and all of the people
and I don't know why
I can't keep my eyes off of you
there's something about you now
I can't quite figure out
everything she does is beautiful
everything she does is right
you and me and all of the people
with nothing to do
nothing to lose
and it's you and me and all of the people
and I don't know why
I can't keep my eyes off of you
you and me and all of the people
with nothing to do
nothing to prove
and it's you and me and all of the people
and I don't know why
I can't keep my eyes off of you
what day is it
and in what month
this clock never seemed so alive
Lifehouse- You and Me
what day is it
and in what month
this clock never seemed so alive
I can't keep up
and I can't back down
I've been losing so much time
cause it's you and me and all of the people
with nothing to do
nothing to lose
and it's you and me and all of the people
and I don't know why
I can't keep my eyes off of you
all of the things that I want to say
just aren't coming out right
I'm tripping inwards
you got my head spinning
I don't know where to go from here
cause it's you and me and all of the people
with nothing to do
nothing to prove
and it's you and me and all of the people
and I don't know why
I can't keep my eyes off of you
there's something about you now
I can't quite figure out
everything she does is beautiful
everything she does is right
you and me and all of the people
with nothing to do
nothing to lose
and it's you and me and all of the people
and I don't know why
I can't keep my eyes off of you
you and me and all of the people
with nothing to do
nothing to prove
and it's you and me and all of the people
and I don't know why
I can't keep my eyes off of you
what day is it
and in what month
this clock never seemed so alive
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
分享之孟子曰
[孟子曰:"舜发于畎亩之中,傅说举于版筑之间,胶鬲举于鱼盐之中,管夷吾举于士,
孙叔敖举于海,百里奚举于市。故天将降大任于是人也,必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨,
饿其体肤,空伐其身行,行弗乱其所为,所以动心忍性,曾益其所不能。人恒过,
然后能改。困于心,衡于虑,而后作。徵于色,发于声,而后喻。入则无法家拂士,
出则无敌国外患者,国恒亡。然后知生于忧患难与共,而死于安乐也。"
译文:
孟子说:“舜从田野之中被任用,傅说从筑墙工作中被举用,胶鬲从贩卖鱼盐的工作中被举用,
管夷吾从狱官手里释放后被举用为相,孙叔敖从海边被举用进了朝廷,百里奚从市井中被举用
登上了相位. 所以上天将要降落重大责任在这样的人身上,一定要道先使他的内心痛苦,
使他的筋骨劳累,使他经受饥饿,以致肌肤消瘦,使他受贫困之苦,使他做的事颠倒错乱,
总不如意,通过那些来使他的内心警觉,使他的性格坚定,增加他不具备的才能。
人经常犯错误,然后才能改正;内心困苦,思虑阻塞,然后才能有所作为;这一切表现到脸色上,
抒发到言语中,然后才被人了解。在一个国内如果没有坚持法度的世臣和辅佐君主的贤士,
在国外如果没有敌对国家和外患,便经常导致灭亡。 这就可以说明,忧愁患害可以使人生存,
而安逸享乐使人萎靡死亡。”]
当你很想放弃时,会想到什么?
当你觉得气馁时,会想到什么?
从昨天就不停地在消化这篇“孟子曰 ”,觉得很有意思。我会努力去思考当中的重要意义。
嗯。。要努力去拼。。
挑战仅有的时间去做无限的事。。
挑战一直被魔侵袭的一念。。
挑战一直挑战我的人间革命。。
挑战阻扰我成长的人事物。。
待续。。。挑战。。
孙叔敖举于海,百里奚举于市。故天将降大任于是人也,必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨,
饿其体肤,空伐其身行,行弗乱其所为,所以动心忍性,曾益其所不能。人恒过,
然后能改。困于心,衡于虑,而后作。徵于色,发于声,而后喻。入则无法家拂士,
出则无敌国外患者,国恒亡。然后知生于忧患难与共,而死于安乐也。"
译文:
孟子说:“舜从田野之中被任用,傅说从筑墙工作中被举用,胶鬲从贩卖鱼盐的工作中被举用,
管夷吾从狱官手里释放后被举用为相,孙叔敖从海边被举用进了朝廷,百里奚从市井中被举用
登上了相位. 所以上天将要降落重大责任在这样的人身上,一定要道先使他的内心痛苦,
使他的筋骨劳累,使他经受饥饿,以致肌肤消瘦,使他受贫困之苦,使他做的事颠倒错乱,
总不如意,通过那些来使他的内心警觉,使他的性格坚定,增加他不具备的才能。
人经常犯错误,然后才能改正;内心困苦,思虑阻塞,然后才能有所作为;这一切表现到脸色上,
抒发到言语中,然后才被人了解。在一个国内如果没有坚持法度的世臣和辅佐君主的贤士,
在国外如果没有敌对国家和外患,便经常导致灭亡。 这就可以说明,忧愁患害可以使人生存,
而安逸享乐使人萎靡死亡。”]
当你很想放弃时,会想到什么?
当你觉得气馁时,会想到什么?
从昨天就不停地在消化这篇“孟子曰 ”,觉得很有意思。我会努力去思考当中的重要意义。
嗯。。要努力去拼。。
挑战仅有的时间去做无限的事。。
挑战一直被魔侵袭的一念。。
挑战一直挑战我的人间革命。。
挑战阻扰我成长的人事物。。
待续。。。挑战。。
Monday, February 14, 2011
郁可唯-暖心
靠近你就覺得安心
因為你那雙愛笑眼睛
你笑我 貓一樣好奇
聰明又偏透著傻氣
Daring 我想告訴你
其實我比你愛我更愛你
善解人意 浪漫話語
彷彿一切命中注定
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像夏天的風吹過那麼涼爽安靜
我輕輕依偎在你的懷裡
天空掛滿祝福的星星
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像傾盆大雨 捨不得淋濕愛你的心
我要唱給你聽 陶醉在你給的甜蜜
Daring 我想告訴你
其實我比你愛我更愛你
善解人意 浪漫話語
彷彿一切命中注定
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像夏天的風吹過那麼涼爽安靜
我輕輕依偎在你的懷裡
天空掛滿祝福的星星
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像傾盆大雨 捨不得淋濕愛你的心
我要唱給你聽 陶醉在你給的甜蜜
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像夏天的風吹過那麼涼爽安靜
我輕輕依偎在你的懷裡
天空掛滿祝福的星星
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像傾盆大雨 捨不得淋濕愛你的心
我要唱給你聽 陶醉在你給的甜蜜
陶醉在你給的甜蜜
因為你那雙愛笑眼睛
你笑我 貓一樣好奇
聰明又偏透著傻氣
Daring 我想告訴你
其實我比你愛我更愛你
善解人意 浪漫話語
彷彿一切命中注定
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像夏天的風吹過那麼涼爽安靜
我輕輕依偎在你的懷裡
天空掛滿祝福的星星
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像傾盆大雨 捨不得淋濕愛你的心
我要唱給你聽 陶醉在你給的甜蜜
Daring 我想告訴你
其實我比你愛我更愛你
善解人意 浪漫話語
彷彿一切命中注定
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像夏天的風吹過那麼涼爽安靜
我輕輕依偎在你的懷裡
天空掛滿祝福的星星
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像傾盆大雨 捨不得淋濕愛你的心
我要唱給你聽 陶醉在你給的甜蜜
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像夏天的風吹過那麼涼爽安靜
我輕輕依偎在你的懷裡
天空掛滿祝福的星星
你的體貼 溫暖了我的心
就像傾盆大雨 捨不得淋濕愛你的心
我要唱給你聽 陶醉在你給的甜蜜
陶醉在你給的甜蜜
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
学习之遗失的美好
人。。会在失去后才懂得珍惜。。
人。。会在失去后才领悟。。
人啊人。。为什么会这样呢?
就因为人类有思维吗?。。
奇怪的脑袋。。去伤害人。。去令人难过。。
听起来,还挺可悲了。。
有人因为曾经遗失过“美好 ”,
所以当再次遇到时,会特别珍惜。。
有人因为曾经遗失过“美好 ”,
而从此封闭自己的心。。
有人因为曾经遗失过“美好 ”,
而对其他无辜的人不公平。。
这。。真的是要这样吗?
又何苦呢。。。。
经常听人说:“快乐的时光过得特别快”。。
美丽灿烂的事像烟花一样,就这么一刹那。。
很快。。就没有了。。
朋友们,珍惜眼前人。。
luv,ming
人。。会在失去后才领悟。。
人啊人。。为什么会这样呢?
就因为人类有思维吗?。。
奇怪的脑袋。。去伤害人。。去令人难过。。
听起来,还挺可悲了。。
有人因为曾经遗失过“美好 ”,
所以当再次遇到时,会特别珍惜。。
有人因为曾经遗失过“美好 ”,
而从此封闭自己的心。。
有人因为曾经遗失过“美好 ”,
而对其他无辜的人不公平。。
这。。真的是要这样吗?
又何苦呢。。。。
经常听人说:“快乐的时光过得特别快”。。
美丽灿烂的事像烟花一样,就这么一刹那。。
很快。。就没有了。。
朋友们,珍惜眼前人。。
luv,ming
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
勇气之 I Believe
Yolanda Adams- I Believe..
因为这首歌。。改变了我的一生。。
因为这首歌。。我加入了舞蹈组。。
因为这首歌。。我会继续加油。。=)
“They said you wouldn't make it so far a a
And ever since they've said it its been hard
But never mind that night'cha had to cry
Cause you had never let it go inside
You worked real hard and you know exactly what you want and need so believe
And you can never give up
You can reach your goals
Just talk to your soul and say
[Chorus:]
I believe i can
I believe i will
I believe i know my dreams are real
I believe i can
I believe i will
I believe i hold it soon man
That is what i do believe
Your fools are justes singing, your soul aha
And you know that your moves will let them show
You keep creating pictures in your mind
So just believe they will come true in time
It will be fine leave all of your cares and stress behind and
Just let it go
Let the music go inside again the pain
It just start to believe
[Chorus]
[Rap passage]
At third my yet what people say
Hold your head high and turn away
With all my hopes and dreams I will believe
Even though it seems it's not for me
I won't give up, i'll keep it up
Looking to the sky
I will achieve on my knees
I will always believe
[2x chorus]“
luv, ming
因为这首歌。。改变了我的一生。。
因为这首歌。。我加入了舞蹈组。。
因为这首歌。。我会继续加油。。=)
“They said you wouldn't make it so far a a
And ever since they've said it its been hard
But never mind that night'cha had to cry
Cause you had never let it go inside
You worked real hard and you know exactly what you want and need so believe
And you can never give up
You can reach your goals
Just talk to your soul and say
[Chorus:]
I believe i can
I believe i will
I believe i know my dreams are real
I believe i can
I believe i will
I believe i hold it soon man
That is what i do believe
Your fools are justes singing, your soul aha
And you know that your moves will let them show
You keep creating pictures in your mind
So just believe they will come true in time
It will be fine leave all of your cares and stress behind and
Just let it go
Let the music go inside again the pain
It just start to believe
[Chorus]
[Rap passage]
At third my yet what people say
Hold your head high and turn away
With all my hopes and dreams I will believe
Even though it seems it's not for me
I won't give up, i'll keep it up
Looking to the sky
I will achieve on my knees
I will always believe
[2x chorus]“
luv, ming
Sunday, January 23, 2011
勇气之承诺
人。。很容易答应别人/自己做一些事。。
答应了,却做不到。。是随口(不当一回事)取下承诺。。
还是。。忘了曾经承诺过的事?
两者都会被归为“不认真“吧。。
或许。。能说成是。。人很善忘吗?
嗯。。又好像讲不通。。
就。。还蛮矛盾的。。
承诺被违背后。。得到是。。失望和难过吧。。
这。。也是因为你在乎所以才会有这种感觉。。
如果承诺,一次又一次的被违背。。
一个普通人应该承受不了很多次。。
后遗症:从此都不再相信任何承诺。。
严重吗?。。还挺严重的。。
直接影响这个人对其他人的信任。。
所以。。要相信人。。也需要很大的勇气。。
因为需要冒险再去相信人。。
这。。不容易。。
因此。。选择去相信。。
就要相信到底。。
希望。。这选择..
不会带来以上的后遗症。。
答应了,却做不到。。是随口(不当一回事)取下承诺。。
还是。。忘了曾经承诺过的事?
两者都会被归为“不认真“吧。。
或许。。能说成是。。人很善忘吗?
嗯。。又好像讲不通。。
就。。还蛮矛盾的。。
承诺被违背后。。得到是。。失望和难过吧。。
这。。也是因为你在乎所以才会有这种感觉。。
如果承诺,一次又一次的被违背。。
一个普通人应该承受不了很多次。。
后遗症:从此都不再相信任何承诺。。
严重吗?。。还挺严重的。。
直接影响这个人对其他人的信任。。
所以。。要相信人。。也需要很大的勇气。。
因为需要冒险再去相信人。。
这。。不容易。。
因此。。选择去相信。。
就要相信到底。。
希望。。这选择..
不会带来以上的后遗症。。
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
学习之充实的幸福
今天要讲的还是学习。。
有时候,人会因为一些事而忽视另一些事。。
是忽视吗?应该说,这世上没有两全其美吧。。
有时候也很难去取舍。。有点难去衡量。。
大多数的人都明白“勉强没有幸福“
可是有多少个人类能真正了解那其中的原理
那到底。。幸福的定义是什么?
有人认为谈场恋爱就很幸福。。
有人认为吃到好吃就很幸福。。
有人认为只要能和家人一起就很幸福。。
有人认为能自由自在就很幸福。。
有人认为没遇到烦恼就很幸福。。
有人认为不用上课就很幸福。。
幸福应该有那充实感。。那用你双手去创造的
充实感。。是无法取代的。。并不是忙。。
“忙“是代表心死。。人心死了,就什么也不用做了。。
人是有选择性失意症,所以要不断提醒自己。。
不断地学习。。学习去释放。。学习去珍惜。。
学习去体谅。。学习去坚强。。
不断地创造价值。。创造充实感。。
这。。就是。。
幸福。。
有时候,人会因为一些事而忽视另一些事。。
是忽视吗?应该说,这世上没有两全其美吧。。
有时候也很难去取舍。。有点难去衡量。。
大多数的人都明白“勉强没有幸福“
可是有多少个人类能真正了解那其中的原理
那到底。。幸福的定义是什么?
有人认为谈场恋爱就很幸福。。
有人认为吃到好吃就很幸福。。
有人认为只要能和家人一起就很幸福。。
有人认为能自由自在就很幸福。。
有人认为没遇到烦恼就很幸福。。
有人认为不用上课就很幸福。。
幸福应该有那充实感。。那用你双手去创造的
充实感。。是无法取代的。。并不是忙。。
“忙“是代表心死。。人心死了,就什么也不用做了。。
人是有选择性失意症,所以要不断提醒自己。。
不断地学习。。学习去释放。。学习去珍惜。。
学习去体谅。。学习去坚强。。
不断地创造价值。。创造充实感。。
这。。就是。。
幸福。。
Sunday, January 9, 2011
9天...
不知不觉过了9天..很不一样的9天..
拿起一张纸..心里想着要写下的东西..
忽然又很想写部落格..上了facebook..
看着照片..看着别人写的东西..
听着只有钢琴声的音乐..忽然哭了..
原因?..我并不是难过..我有种莫名的感动..
感动得让我流泪..很奇怪,对吧?
从来都不曾有的决心..
从来都不曾有的一念..
从来都不曾有的坚持..
从来都不曾有的感觉..
无时无刻..我都会加油..用尽我的生命的加油..
因为..我正在创造价值..
前所未有的价值..
谢谢你..
luv,ming
拿起一张纸..心里想着要写下的东西..
忽然又很想写部落格..上了facebook..
看着照片..看着别人写的东西..
听着只有钢琴声的音乐..忽然哭了..
原因?..我并不是难过..我有种莫名的感动..
感动得让我流泪..很奇怪,对吧?
从来都不曾有的决心..
从来都不曾有的一念..
从来都不曾有的坚持..
从来都不曾有的感觉..
无时无刻..我都会加油..用尽我的生命的加油..
因为..我正在创造价值..
前所未有的价值..
谢谢你..
luv,ming
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